Love not hate

Hate is such a strong word. It gets used too much to the point we forget the meaning of hate or why we hate in the first place. There is a fine love between love and hate. After all how can you say you love or hate someone until after you really get to know them? Think about it even though after only one second your first impression is made of that person and comes into play over and over again, how do you know if you really hate them or love them? True love is built slowly like a house it has to have a firm foundation. Hate can be made in a few seconds like after someone kills a loved one right in front of you. It is easier to hate them than love them, but why not try? They may have some serious mental issues and be a sociopath. Or have schizophrenia. If you do not know the person then how can you really say you hate them? It is easier to hate, but nicer to love. Thus why not try? You can make a million excuses for both. You can decide which one to do within a few seconds, but why not try to love? That person may be your new best friend or your new husband or wife if you just try. Forget age, race, and all that other stuff and just think about it. Let them know how you feel it is not a bad thing and is not shameful to love somebody for being them.